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Paradise :-P In this case I initialize this concept because although I'm in a stable relationship, I don't really believe in monogamy and I think that people can like more than one person.

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The dilemma I have two ex-wives: I see my children all the time, have never missed child support payments, attend events and help as much as I can.

My relationship with my second ex is strong, but not with my first. I am really happy and treat him as my own. I completely love them both and think I am finally content. She has met my children although we have not stated we are partners. My second ex is happy for me. My first ex, however, has banned me from going anywhere with my new partner when I have the older two children. If I try to stand up to my first ex she becomes abusive and brings up our break-up, which was more than seven years ago.

If I put my new partner first I get accused of neglect; if I play nice with my first ex she takes advantage. I do, however, appreciate irrepressible optimism. And your assertion that you have now, finally, found the woman who will make you content is certainly that. The benefit of hindsight is a valuable gift.

No wonder your first incumbent has little confidence that this latest fancy will be any more of a permanent fixture than she or her replacement were. The enthusiasm to introduce new lovers to friends and wider family is a perfectly natural impulse, but when it comes to kids a more cautious approach is preferable. So how many potential stepmothers do you expect your children to meet and get to know? Does ex-wife number one get on with ex-wife number two?

In other words is your current devotion to the boy likely to continue if you and this latest squeeze split up? Their feelings and indeed their basic human rights must also provide a point of reference. Choices have repercussions and learning to live with the outcome of your decisions is as important as striving for personal fulfilment.

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How to Forget Your Ex-Wife and Move on | PairedLife

This is because we associate some things in our minds subconsciously with a feeling, an emotion. While sometimes this might be a happy memory, when you are being divorced those happy times feel like torture because each memory is like a new sense of loss each time. If they are bad memories of arguments this is also obviously distressing to keep reliving.

The decisions you make are influenced by your mood. This might seem an obvious statement but no matter how logical we think we are being, our state of mind has subtle insidious influences that make you question your decisions later many times. If you cannot control your emotions, moods and state of mind due to memories and triggered feelings adjusting these things, then what you do suffers from a serious undercurrent of negativity.

This will slowly seep into all parts of your life vandalising your good work. Forget might be too strong a word, but it is what we think about when assaulted by these. We want them to be gone from our minds so they don't bother us anymore. This is not how memories work though, even if you are a forgetful person they will always be there and always SHOULD be there.

What you really need to do is forget the intensity of those memories. You need to tone down how they affect you more than trying to bury them. This way is about dealing with your internal systems of mood altering references so that you no longer control you. This can be done in a number of different ways which retrain your brain to disassociate the memory to the mood. Your mind can be trained if you know how. If you control it, the bad stuff in your life cannot control you!

The memories of bad times or good times that haunt your days are just one of the obstacles that come up when trying to create a new live and be happy after divorce for men. Many other emotional problems are encountered along the way to a full recovery from divorce which is often interlinked to a few base level problems.

If you confront these psychological roadblocks and defeat them you will find the pain of a divorce will simply evaporate. Like putting on a new pair of glasses everything will shift back into focus in fact. This is not an immediate effect of course, it takes a fair bit of understanding and looking into your own mind and motives before the switch in your brain just clicks and you start a fast road to recovery.

To help you along this journey click elbow to get my e-book on this subjects that goes into detail on how to end the memories that plague you and teach you the fundamentals of divorce recovery as well as how to deal with the nitty gritty details of day to day life - and finally how to really move on and live your life to the fullest afterwards!

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A lack of control of the intensity and frequency of memories leads to massive mood fluctuation. Decision Making The decisions you make are influenced by your mood. How to Forget Your Ex Wife Memories Forget might be too strong a word, but it is what we think about when assaulted by these. Disassociation - Actively remembering but taking your point of view out of your own body and looking at the scene from a 3rd point of view Volume - Actively remember and lower the volume of the sounds in your mind and even the sharpness of your image Moving on From Divorce The memories of bad times or good times that haunt your days are just one of the obstacles that come up when trying to create a new live and be happy after divorce for men.

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Approach the relationship from a different angle this time. If you were too clingy, face your trust issues and allow her to have her space. If you were too aloof make an honest attempt to find interest in her work or hobbies and look her in the eye when she shares her thoughts with you.

It's easy, because of your history, to jump to conclusions or have preconceived notions of what her motives are or what she's thinking. Lay these aside and remind yourself that you are starting fresh. Listen with new ears. Observe her with new eyes. This is a fresh chance for the two of you. You're not married anymore. There is no rush, no obligation to make it something it's not, and no pressure to perform in old ways or according to old precepts.

Enjoy the moment with your ex-wife. Renee Miller has been writing professionally since Her accomplishments include being featured in Harlots' Sauce online magazine in January , among others. She studied communications at Auburn University. She is currently a designer for an upscale floral design shop. She decorates homes and businesses, designs wedding flowers and is known for her exquisite sympathy designs. If your relationship brought out the worst in you or made you feel insignificant, you may want to ask yourself it it's worth trying again.

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